http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/02/13/kissing.science/index.html
So, instead of trying to cure diseases, these scientists are trying to figure out why we like to kiss. DUH! I can tell you why! It feels great! Well, most of the time it does! Sometimes its awful!
When a kiss is good you feel it all the way down to your toes! You pull that person closer, and the next thing you know you are both pulling each other's clothes off!
When a kiss is bad, well...that all depends. How much do you like the other person? I mean, is the other person HOT??? I've had that happen a couple of times. I've gone out with men who were REALLY HOT, but then when they kissed me it was AWFUL! In most cases, I've tried to put more into the kissing, so that I would hopefully get more OUT of the kissing. Unfortunately, some people simply do not know how to kiss.
So, let's look at some very basic concepts of kissing!
Some people don't understand the concept of "pucker up" or how important it is. When you pucker your lips it makes you really focus on that area of your body. Go ahead. Close your eyes and pucker your lips gently right now, just like you were going to kiss someone. Don't worry, no one is looking! See, just the act of puckering can make you feel horny!
Some people don't understand the concept of "slobber control." Too much saliva makes for a VERY messy kiss that sometimes makes you feel like you need to go take a shower afterwards! I've had a few of those too!
Others don't understand the concept of "give and take." Good kissing is like a dance. There's a good amount of give and take. I'll let you rub your tongue in my mouth, but then after a while its MY turn to put MY tongue in YOUR mouth! Beware the kisser who tongues you but won't let you tongue them back! This is a serious mistake! It's a dead giveaway that someone is a self-centered taker!
Another mistake is the one made by the person who refuses to give or take tongue! In MY book, anyone who just wants cutsy little lip kisses is not serious about kissing me, and I'm not going to waste my time on them! Who would?
The great kiss is the one where both of you relax completely, and close your eyes, and open up to each other. Your tongues dance back and forth exploring each other intimately. You feel like you are falling into each other. You pull the other person closer to you, as they pull you closer to them. There's a tremendous feeling of togetherness, and mutuality that leads to clothes being pulled off, hands exploring crotches, and really HOT sex!
Personally, I think all these scientists really need is a REALLY GOOD kiss!
Monday, February 16, 2009
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